Mendy Goossen, 19, was killed in a crash on Sunday involving an OPP cruiser
Like many young women, Mendy Goossen wanted to travel to Paris and New York, to see the world’s most famous art galleries, work on her art and maybe one day become a director.
The 19-year-old died after she was struck by an OPP cruiser in the early morning hours Sunday.
Her brother, Alex Goossen, remembers his sister as quiet but creative and full of love.
“She's my best friend, probably the best friend anybody could ask for," he said. "She was not the right person to go so soon."
The youngest of four children, Mendy was born in Ethiopia and was adopted when she came to Canada in 2010 at the age of four, according to her obituary.
Alex, also adopted into the family before Mendy, said when he was little, he was at times jealous of his new little sister.
“I didn't know what I'd do with her,” he said. “Now that she's gone, I don't know what I'd do without her."
Goossen says his sister had a depth of perception and creative streak that set her apart.
Lately, his sister had wanted to turn to directing as a career, with a growing interest in video editing.
"She loved looking at art. She could see things that a lot of us couldn't,” he said. “You know, I go to an art museum and I just see pictures on a wall. But she saw the depth inside the art and the feelings from a painting that a lot of us don't get.
“She just had a whole world of imagination.”
Goossen says his sister was always around when he needed her, for lunch or coffee outings, something he always appreciated.
“She was there and she didn't say a lot. But now that she's gone, there's a big hole there."
The single-car crash happened around 4:30 a.m. Sunday morning on County Road 20 near Iler Road in Harrow, and an OPP officer from the Essex County detachment was driving.
Ontario's Special Investigations Unit is handling the investigation because it is a police-involved incident that involves a death.
A spokesperson said there were no updates to share Thursday and that the investigation is still in early days.
Goossen said that was his understanding of the investigation, too. But he doesn’t have any ill will towards the police involved in the crash.
"I'm not sure what happened other than she's gone,” he said. “Everybody's human, right? So it could be police. It could be anybody.”
Goossen says there’s been an outpouring of support from the community in the wake of his sister’s death. He said her friends have been in touch, telling him stories about his sister.
The family is also thankful for the support of their church, funeral home and extended family, he added.
“I would have never expected that. Especially my sister, she would have never realized she made such a big impact on so many people,” he said. “I'm amazed. I've been very happy for the community."
Visitation and funeral services are set to be held Friday morning.
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